Not the "I Do's"... but the musical "Dos" and "Don'ts"

Happy Monday morning! It's snowy here, but everyone is where they need to be and work has been under way here for a good few hours now.

I had a great night watching the BAFTAs and reading and responding to some emails from lovely couples who are getting married but wanting some advice on what music they can have in the venue they are marring in.

So, even though it's already on my blog as info, I wanted to take the opportunity to highlight a few Dos and Don'ts when it comes to music for your wedding, specifically in the UK. Unfortunately, in the UK it's not as straight forward as being able to have any music you want at your wedding there are a few rules and regulations that have to be adhered to.

Civil Weddings

Currently the law in England states that music in civil services must be "non-religious." This does leave some grey areas on what can and can't be used and in reality it is probably more at the discretion of the individual Registrars as to whether particular music is suitable.

If in doubt, best thing is to contact the General Register Office at this address:

Marriages & Civil Partnerships 

General Register Office

Trafalgar Road

Southport

PR8 2HH

Goes without saying that if you're unsure, I can help and guide you all the way but the best rule is to also speak to your own Registrar and work closely with them.

But, regardless of religious or non-religious music, you can still have music to impress with fabulous processional and recessional music (the ins and outs!) and something special for signing the register. You can also get all your friends and family involved to add that personal touch!

Religious Services

With church or religious weddings you are working within the rules and regulations of your own religion, be it hymns, religious songs or anthems. You also have a free rein to choose some fabulous music for processional, recessional, signing of the register and both before and after the service to entertain your guests. Again, speak to your minister and they'll advise you as appropriate but don't be hounded into choosing music you think you should have....

More on the old church service music situation tomorrow I think. Let me know your thoughts.

Tabby xxx